Skip to main content

MATERIALISM

Psychology of Materialism: Are you What You OWN?

materialism
Photo :Credits
Money, then more money and finally more cravings for more money.

Does money define who we are? Does our efforts in life matter? The growing culture of materialism around the globe has changed perceptions, influenced ideologies and created another class in the society, The wannabes

People are now evaluated by the size of their pockets, bank accounts and investments. This a good thing though. Saving for the dry season. why not?


But the problem comes in when we strive through thick and thin to paint a grim picture of a growing culture of materialism.  Researches have shown that those who pursue wealth and material possessions tend to be less satisfied and experience fewer positive emotions each day.

On the other hand, research has found that life satisfaction is correlated with having less materialistic values. Unbelievable Right?

Materialistic people tend to be competitive. They want to fit in even if they are to sell out their own happiness for material possessions. Why should someone pretend to be from  a posh neighborhood only to make somebody else satisfied. such people will rent apartments in high end neighborhoods,  take a loans to buy that new Lamborghini and struggle throughout the month to fit in.

You see, trying hard to fit into the 'Keeping Up With the Kardashians' Lifestyle usually turns out to be a total disappointment for some unknown reasons. I wish it worked. You can fool people on the social media platforms but deep down lies a sad & tired self trying so hard to be.

See, I also come from this school of thought that believes that a person is defined by what He/She does in life and the quality of life the person leads rather than the material possessions. 

Well, again we can argue that the quality of life is defined by their financial capabilities but that's a long topic for another day.

Today, lets agree to disagree that a person is not defined by what he/she owns but the quality of life lived and most importantly, their intellectual self.

Comments

Popular posts from this blog

What is your Social Media Saying?

ONLINE ACTIVITIES: YOUR ULTIMATE BUILDER OR BREAKER. Photo:Credits Are you always missing out on those big interviews that you know you were more than qualified for? Are you not receiving interview emails after a thousand applications? The problem could be your social media platforms. How well do you present yourself in the public limelight? Are your Facebook, Twitter, Instagram and LinkedIn accounts professional? Do they reflect a job seeking individual? Your online social media accounts could be your resume in this social media age. Social media is becoming a big aspect of everyone’s life. People who neglect to build and maintain a strong social media presence may miss out on big opportunities. It is the social media that public figures, product brands and companies run to, whenever they need to know where they are placed in the public eye.  On the other hand the social media serves as a CV for any job seekers. What you post on your Facebook account reflec...

EYE HEALTH

Defeating The Blinding Curse In Marginalized Children Picture Courtesy of Internet By JUDITH MORAA Every child desires to watch their mother smile, read & write and share in the happiness of their family's joy. This are the things we take for granted. Our ability to see the sun rise and set, watch our children play happily and even the clean water at our disposal. This is not the case in Kajiado county, which has been named as one of the trachoma-endemic counties in Kenya. Trachoma is the leading infectious cause of blindness in the world among children. It starts from childhood and if left untreated leads to total blindness. It is commonly found in Pastoral areas with poor hygiene environments. Children between 1-9 years are the most affected victims of this blinding curse followed by those aged 10-15 years. As they innocently interact with their animals, unclean water, lack basic hygiene and adequate sanitation at home and school they un...

BIRTHDAY CHRONICLES

A cry of the Unborn Photo courtesy of Internet Today I celebrate me, the birth of me, the day I made my first sound, the day I witnessed the first lovely smile, the day I felt the first pure, genuine and true love of a mother and the day I was truly accepted into a family. This is the day a name was chosen for me, a name that appear on all my records, a name that I stick with and answer to all my life without complaining. A day like this in the 1990s, I was initiated into the societal rules and regulations that I knew nothing about. A race was decided for me, a tribe, a religion, a language, a country and most of it all, I was expected to behave in a certain way immediately after my birth. On this day, my gender, dress code and my gender roles in the society were ruled out. In some communities, this is the day my bride price was decided and my fate in life concluded. All without my knowledge. As I quietly wrapped my hands around my mother’s finger, innocently smili...